While sibling rivalry is common and natural, it’s not something to be ignored. Parents can’t assume that children will automatically grow out of it.

Deep-seated resentment and jealousy could well extend into adulthood, affecting relationships in the family. There are many case histories of adult brothers and sisters fighting over property, business, and other issues.

So while most children do grow out of sibling rivalry there is a need to make an effort to help them by ensuring that neither of the siblings feels the other is being given unequal attention or affection, or that one gets all the praise.

Parents and the extended family can help the elder child feel loved and wanted after a new arrival in the family. Older children also need parental love, support and affection.