PW invited parents of ATS Valley School, Dera Bassi (Punjab), to share insights on how they help children identify and build their talents

“All children are born with innate intelligences and the best way to hone their talents is to provide children with ample opportunities and carefully observe their progress. Given that children are fickle-minded with fleeting interests, we need to guide them patiently. Like a kite flyer who allows his kite to fly free in the sky and cuts the string only when the need arises, I have assumed the role of guide and best friend to my daughter Rushi (class V) giving her all the freedom to experiment” — Ritu Manocha, homemaker

Most of us secretly nurture ambitious dreams for our children but forget that every child is unique with her own set of desires and goals. Sometimes I have been tempted to sign up my son Aryavir (15) for a game/activity only to relive my own childhood. But it’s important to become aware of our children’s interests and aid and encourage them. By providing them opportunities, encouragement and freedom to discover who they are, I believe we can ensure their future success.” — Shivali Narula, homemaker.

Our unique attributes make us different from each other. I can’t thank the teachers and staff of ATS Valley School enough for bringing out the uniqueness of my daughter Nayra (class I) who is privileged to learn in stimulating environments at school and at home. I believe early childhood is the ideal time to guide a child towards her natural talents by exposing her to multiple activities so she can be trained in her choice of activity, before serious academic pressure kicks in.” — Parul Kaushik, homemaker.

I accept and encourage the aspirations of my children — Mehul (class I) and Mivaan (LKG) — related to any activity or activities they are keen to pursue. I also keep my ears and eyes open for hints that they may drop while discussing their likes and dislikes. Most children are ever curious about the world around them. Repeated requests to visit a certain place or engage in an activity are other cues to watch out for.” — Anita Jain, operations head at GLS Export Corporation, Mohali.